“情商一定是让别人和自己都舒服。如果让别人舒服，自己却很痛苦，那不叫情商，叫智障。”

Emotional intelligence must be about making both others and oneself comfortable. If it makes others comfortable but oneself miserable, that's not emotional intelligence; it's foolishness.

--霍普金斯 Hopkins

“如果善良得不到应有的尊重，那么最好的方式就是翻脸。”

If kindness is not met with the respect it deserves, then the best course of action is to turn away.

--稻盛和夫 Kazuo Inamori

“为什么很多女人长期反复被男人骗？因为她们的要求就只有骗子才能满足，正常人满足不了。”

Why are many women repeatedly deceived by men over a long period? Because their demands are such that only a deceiver can meet them; a normal person cannot.

--毛姆 W. Somerset Maugham

“一见面就问你谋生方式的人，本质上就在计算对你的尊重程度。”

People who ask about your means of livelihood right upon meeting are essentially calculating the degree of respect to accord you.

--罗素 Bertrand Russell

“人的一切痛苦，本质上都是对自己无能的愤怒。”

All human suffering is, in essence, anger towards one's own incompetence.

--王小波 Wang Xiaobo

“无法做出决策的人，或欲望过大，或觉悟不足。”

A person who cannot make a decision is either overwhelmed by desire or lacks sufficient awareness.

--笛卡尔 René Descartes

“只要你成功了，丑是耐看的，胖是圆润的，矮是精华，黑是质感，什么缺点都圆的过去。”

As long as you succeed, ugliness becomes endearing, fatness is seen as fullness, shortness as the essence, darkness as texture; any flaw can be glossed over.

--王尔德 Oscar Wilde

“每个月几千块钱，买断你所有的时间和梦想，不可悲吗？”

Isn't it sad to have your entire time and dreams bought out for just a few thousand dollars a month?

--巴菲特 Warren Buffett

“让他们相信他们被骗了，要比骗他们还难。”

It's easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled.

--马克吐温 Mark Twain

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